Getting "Hit On"

[PhatPhizzixxer]

Ok...this is for all you cool chicks out there who ride...just wondering if this happens to you very much...

Last week, I took the bike to the dealer for a look-see at my rear tire which seemed to have a slow leak. Since I didn't want to sit inside in one of those boring dealer lounges, I'm standing outside by the service entrance, wandering around, stretching my legs, & just basically killing time waiting. This dude rides up on his loud, black Harley & is also waiting but he's talking on his phone so loud...as if he wants everyone around him to hear his conversation...which I don't. When he gets off the phone, he walks over to me & starts hitting on me. I start texting on my phone & trying to ignore him but he just keeps on talking to me! Even turning away from him doesn't deter him. I go inside the office & start asking questions of the guy behind the counter & Harley-guy follows me inside...still talking, trying to get me to go look at his bike, asking me my name, trying to give me advice, etc. He gets another call, goes outside, talks a bit, gets off the phone, starts up his bike as if he's going to leave, turns it back off, comes back inside & starts talking again. While he's outside, I tell the guy at the counter to keep talking to me & maybe Harley-guy will leave. At this point, I'm thinking, WTF - what if he tries to follow me when I leave? I'm a very new rider so it's not like I can do a burn-out, flip him off & peel out of there while he eats my dust.

Look, I'm not paranoid & I don't mind some friendly conversation but I was alone & it kinda freaked me out. I felt like he crossed the line & I felt afraid to leave especially since he was all done & basically seemed to be waiting while I finished up. Do any of you chicks have concerns like that about riding alone?

[cbzdel]

So I take it your hot, lets see some pics so we can judge haha

that would be a little creepy, I had the same kinda problem last weekend kinda, and I am a guy haha!!!

I went out to a bar with my lady, (who I am now married to) and it was for my best friends birthday.. So we get there and there is this girl there, she always wanted to date me or "somthing" but I never wanted anything to do with her because she was about the sluttiest woman I know.. So we get to the bar and this chick is wasted and she starts hanging all over me asking me to take her for a ride.. I kept telling her no and I didnt even ride the bike that night!!! She was completely drunk and probably high as well.. So I keep ignoring her and my wifey just thinks its funny because she knows I am uncomfortable and at the same time would never do anything..

As the night goes on I am out side having a smoke with the wife, as we are both chain smokers when we drink think its disgusting when sober.. So this crazy chick TACKLES me, yes TACKLES me and screams if you dont give me a ride how about I ride you!!!!!!! WTF!!!!!!!!!! My wife is stunned shock and almost instantly a police officer that was parked outside came to my rescue, and I told him how she has been harassing me all night and I have just been ignoring her, and he asked if she just made a sexual advance towards me, and i said yes, and he cuffed her and took her into custody!!

[FZ1inNH]

That really sucks. Sorry you had to endure that with the creep. I'd suggest carrying some pepper spray with you. That will give you plenty of time to pull away.

There's no need for that crap in any lady's life.

[jdesiano1]

^^ohmigod Hilarious. Sorry.


As for guys hitting on you, Yes it happens and can be creepy. I usually call someone on the phone and just tell them to talk to me for a few minutes. I can't stand acting like a b*tch so I try all ways to avoid that. Even the cute guys hitting on you can get old sometimes.


*Guys we don't mind SOME appreciation but ya'll are not all idiots*

[Stricken]

Yeah I get hit on a lot when I have my gear on. Sometimes it creeps me out because some of these women look like a total mess! But I always try to be nice and have a good but short conversation with them. It sure gives me an ego boost.

[99vengeur]

If you are good friends with any of the guys at the dealership, you could have leaned over and given him a light kiss on the cheek. That might send the "buzz off" flare into the air. lol

Or, you could have politely told the Harley-guy that his bike makes too much noise for it to be an enjoyable ride.

No, in all seriousness, I have found that being honest up front is always better than ignoring and giving the cold shoulder. Some guys may interpret that as "hard to get" rather than "get lost."

[PhatPhizzixxer]

Originally Posted by FZ1inNH

That really sucks. Sorry you had to endure that with the creep. I'd suggest carrying some pepper spray with you. That will give you plenty of time to pull away.

There's no need for that crap in any lady's life.

Great idea!! I do have some pepper spray & had completely forgotten I had it! I'm going to make a note to myself to get it out & keep it with me. This is why I usually ride when the BF is available but he wasn't that day.

Yeah, I don't want to deal with that crap at all....friendliness, fine....but feeling like you're being preyed on...no thanks.

[PhatPhizzixxer]

Originally Posted by jdesiano1

As for guys hitting on you, Yes it happens and can be creepy. I usually call someone on the phone and just tell them to talk to me for a few minutes. I can't stand acting like a b*tch so I try all ways to avoid that. Even the cute guys hitting on you can get old sometimes

LOL...as it happens, I had to leave the bike there so when I had a chance, I escaped to the ladies restroom, called the BF, asked if he was busy & he said 'Yeah'; then I said, 'This harlely guy is totally hitting on me...' "I'm on my way", he says, hangs up & shows up in 20 minutes...yeah, he saved the day! The ending was totally cool.

[JonKerr]

What dealership were you at?

[PhatPhizzixxer]

Originally Posted by JonKerr

What dealership were you at?

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